Money can be a major source of tension in relationships—especially during the holiday season. Secret spending, financial avoidance, or differing values about gift-giving can lead to what therapists call financial infidelity. At Las Vegas Therapy, we help couples rebuild trust and connection by addressing these hidden issues.
What Is Financial Infidelity?
Financial infidelity involves keeping money secrets from your partner, like hidden credit card debt, secret purchases, or undisclosed financial decisions. During the holidays, the pressure to give “perfect” gifts or avoid disappointing loved ones can push people into overspending—sometimes without telling their partner.
The result? Guilt, resentment, and mistrust that can carry over well into the new year.
Signs of Holiday Financial Conflict
One partner hides gift expenses or avoids conversations about spending
Arguments over budgeting, travel, or gift expectations
One partner feels left out of financial decisions
How Couples Can Heal
Have a Financial Check-In: Discuss spending expectations early and revisit them throughout the season.
Set Shared Goals: Agree on a holiday budget and align gift-giving with shared values.
Get Support: Therapy can provide a safe space to navigate emotional money issues and improve communication.
Let Therapy Strengthen Your Relationship
At Las Vegas Therapy, our licensed therapists specialize in couples counseling and holiday-related financial stress. Whether you’re facing conflict or rebuilding trust, we’re here to help.
Rebuild Trust—Together
If you’re feeling disconnected because of holiday spending habits, reach out today to schedule a session. With the right tools, your relationship can emerge stronger than ever.

